NUMB

Becoming an emotionally numb person is the worst thing you can do to yourself. In reality we all are social animals and drive with the force of emotions. Being emotionally numb, you don't feel anything, nothing is good but nothing is bad either. Its like, things are piling up in your heart, you can feel the heartache as if its some kind of physical pain, but there's no medicine for it, nobody can see it, nobody can heal it and there's no way you can get rid of it, and its definitely more difficult for a person whose life revolves around feelings, around emotions, around love, whose empathetic and has always been listening to their heart. These people suffer more because they feel more.
Being in love, here love doesn’t mean only romantic love, it means compassion, kindness, empathy, generosity, sensitivity, courage, affection. Being in love allows you to be all these things, to feel things, to be able to reciprocate emotions, to be able to understand others, love allows you to heal yourself and heal others.There's nothing you can do 100% without putting your love.
The body shuts down when it has too much to bear; goes its own way quietly inside, waiting for a better time, leaving you numb and half alive. We cannot selectively numb emotions, when we numb the painful emotions, we also numb the positive emotions.
Its your life, how you live it depends entirely on you, if you let anybody have control of it, that's your decision.But don’t let that happen, its your life, you deserve to live it to its absolute best, you deserve to be HAPPY.

"We Have Two Lives, And The Second One Begins When We Realise We Only Have One"

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